When we have an excessive need for affirmation, we can try and beat it out of the very person who gives it to us.
If we want to stop domestic violence, we have to first understand it.
There is nothing good or kind about domestic violence, but domestic violence, is not as astonishing as the reason that causes it. According to an article written by Psychology Today’s, Hara Estroff Marano, titled The Key to Ending Domestic Violence, what leads to domestic violence is affirmation – the overwhelming need, we can sometimes have for it.

Domestic Violence in Australia – The Facts
Domestic violence is one of the most pressing issues in Australia. According to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (AIHW):
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1 in 6 women and 1 in 16 men have experienced physical or sexual violence from a partner since the age of 15.
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On average, one woman a week is killed by a current or former partner (Our Watch).
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In 2022, over 116,000 family and domestic violence-related assaults were reported to police nationwide (Australian Bureau of Statistics).
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Migrant women and new arrivals are often at higher risk due to lack of awareness about Australian laws and available support (Australian Government – Department of Social Services).
Can you give, what you don’t have, yourself?
What research into domestic violence has found is that ‘the perpetrator of violence is in need of a level of affirmation and support that their partner may not be capable of giving at a point in time.’
This can lead to violence, rage and abuse that is physical, emotional, social or spiritual. In Australia, new immigrants need to be particularly aware of the law as it stands. Violence of any kind, including curbing the movements, or rights, any child or adult has legal access, or recourse to, is abuse.
You don’t have to put up with an abusive situation, you can leave it
Too often, victims of domestic violence feel like they have ‘no option’ available to them. However, In Australia, you have the right, not just the option, to be free and to live with the safety and dignity that our constitution and society guarantee you.

If you are in immediate danger, the police are your first port of call
Their first obligation is to ensure your safety. Once this is secured, a good legal firm like Platinum Lawyers can help you understand the legal options you have available to you. Taking out an Apprehended Violence Order (AVO) on your partner is the first of them.
An AVO is designed to protect you and your children
You can take out an AVO on a partner, someone you’ve been intimate or in a relationship with, as well as a neighbour or individual who is harassing you by stalking you.
If it is the circumstance that you would like to continue to live with your partner but would also like to have an AVO to protect yourself against physical, emotional or social violence, this can also be arranged.
How Platinum Lawyers Can Help
If you or someone you love is facing domestic violence, knowing your legal options can feel overwhelming. At Platinum Lawyers, we provide not only expert legal advice but also compassionate support every step of the way. Below are answers to common questions about how we can help protect you and your family.
FAQs – How Platinum Lawyers Can Help
1. How can Platinum Lawyers help me if I’m experiencing domestic violence?
We provide urgent legal advice, assist with AVO applications, and represent you in court to ensure your safety and rights are protected.
2. Can Platinum Lawyers help me get an Apprehended Violence Order (AVO)?
Yes. We specialise in AVO applications and can guide you through the process quickly, whether you need immediate protection or longer-term safety measures.
3. Do you represent both women and men in domestic violence cases?
Absolutely. We represent anyone experiencing violence or abuse, regardless of gender, background, or situation.
4. Can you help if I want to leave an abusive relationship?
Yes. We can advise on your rights, organise urgent protection orders, and assist with family law matters like custody, property, and financial support.
5. What if I still want to live with my partner but need protection?
We can help you secure an AVO that allows you to live together while still protecting you from physical, emotional, or social abuse.
6. Do Platinum Lawyers provide confidential consultations?
Yes. All discussions are private and handled with the utmost sensitivity to protect your safety and dignity.
7. How quickly can you act in urgent cases?
In emergencies, we can provide same-day advice and support, including urgent AVO applications.
8. Can you help me with child custody and safety concerns?
Yes. We handle parenting orders and custody arrangements to ensure your children are safe and protected from harm.
9. Do you work with police and support services?
Yes. We coordinate with police and relevant agencies to strengthen your case and keep protective measures in place.
10. Can you help new immigrants who don’t understand Australian law?
Yes. We provide clear explanations, multilingual support, and guidance for new arrivals unfamiliar with their legal rights in Australia.
11. What makes Platinum Lawyers different from other firms?
We combine over 20 years of experience and a 99% success rate with compassion, confidentiality, and 24/7 support.
12. How do I contact Platinum Lawyers for help?
Call us anytime on (02) 8084 2764 or submit an enquiry online for a confidential consultation.
At Platinum Lawyers, we understand your need for privacy and sensitivity
Domestic violence is not an issue anyone wants to see publicised. With an experience that goes back 20 years and a success rate that is 99%, we give you the legal expertise you need, with the sensitivity and care you also do.
If you are a victim of Domestic Violence Lawyers Sydney, please call us today for an initial consultation over the phone on (02) 8084 2764 or enquire online.
📘 Helpful Resources on Family and Domestic Violence
At Platinum Lawyers, we believe that access to accurate information is the first step toward safety and justice. Below are some trusted government resources that provide guidance and support regarding domestic and family violence in Australia:
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Attorney-General’s Department – Coercive Control in Family and Domestic Violence
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Family Violence Law Help – What is Domestic and Family Violence?